Monthly Archives: May 2009

47…Going on Dead. (Shoot Me.)

Technically, I’m still 46.  The big B-Day doesn’t arrive until Tuesday.  But my mind is already racing with thoughts of “what I’ve learned so far” in approximately 47 years of life. Know this:  I don’t claim to be right about … Continue reading

13 Comments

Filed under adultery, affairs, bipolar disorder, cheating, forties, husbands, infidelity, life, lovers, marriage, wives

Why Workplace Affairs Are a Mofo.

If you cheat on your spouse, it most likely will be with someone you work with, experts say.   There’s something about being cooped up in an office that makes married adults want to fuck.  Or something like that. But if … Continue reading

6 Comments

Filed under adultery, affairs, cheating, Facebook, infidelity, lovers

Memorial Day Do’s and Don’ts for Adulterer’s.

You know not to drink and drive. You know not to light a grill with gasoline. And you know not to swim immediately after eating. That shit’ll getcha killed, or so we’ve been told. But what about Memorial Day “do’s” … Continue reading

4 Comments

Filed under adultery, affairs, cheating, husbands, infidelity, lovers, marriage, Memorial Day, wives

How History Remembers Affairs.

May 25, 2050. Rummaging through boxes in a dust-filled attic, the young woman made a startling discovery. A leather-bound journal that belonged to her grandfather recounted the story of his fabled affair. But not the story that had been whispered … Continue reading

22 Comments

Filed under adultery, affairs, bipolar disorder, cheating, husbands, infidelity, lovers, marriage, wives

Married? Then Don’t Read This.

Are you happily married?  Of course you are.  You wouldn’t trade your husband or wife for anything in the world.  But if there’s one thing I’ve learned after almost losing my wife (due to my affair), it’s that married people … Continue reading

41 Comments

Filed under adultery, affairs, cheating, divorce, husbands, infidelity, life, lovers, marriage, wives

What I Would Say to My Ex-Lover’s Husband

What I did with your wife wasn’t cool. If I could erase it, I would. I never meant to hurt you personally. All I really knew about you was from your wife, who made you sound like a neglectful jerk. Continue reading

3 Comments

Filed under adultery, affairs, bipolar disorder, cheating, husbands, infidelity, lovers, marriage, wives

The Delusions of a Cheating Man.

I know a guy who, just like me, cheated on his wife with a woman he worked with. Over beers one night (see What I Learned from a Fellow Adulterer), he told me a story that blew my mind. See if … Continue reading

6 Comments

Filed under adultery, affairs, cheating, husbands, infidelity, life, lovers, marriage, wives

Is the Opposite of Love ‘Indifference’?

It’s funny how certain things people say get stuck in your head like a broken record. For example, a few months ago, when I was blogging about my hatred for my former “other woman” who I once loved, blog-friend Terri … Continue reading

20 Comments

Filed under adultery, affairs, blogging, cheating, infidelity, lovers