Memorial Day Do’s and Don’ts for Adulterer’s.

You know not to drink and drive. You know not to light a grill with gasoline. And you know not to swim immediately after eating. That shit’ll getcha killed, or so we’ve been told.
But what about Memorial Day “do’s” and “don’ts” for the rest of us? Folks with an “A” [...]

Which Couple is Better Off? You Decide.

A married man has an affair with a married woman. They get caught. As expected, the shit hits the fan, but both cheaters manage to hold onto their marriages. Yet there is a major difference in how these couples fare in the aftermath of adultery.
Couple #1:
The husband is the cheater. His wife is [...]

My Smokin’ Hot Wife.

This is the last thing a guy in my position should be talking about.  I know I’ll catch grief.   But since my affair, my wife –who has suffered tremendously from my actions– has developed a body that rivals most models.
She is ”smokin’ hot,” as Ricky Bobby said.
Again, I realize how bad this sounds.  My wife’s [...]

My Public Relations Problem.

In many ways, my “situation” could be a lot worse than it is. I could be living in a hotel, but I’m not. My family and in-laws could hate me, but they don’t. And my bosses could learn I had an affair with an “unstable” employee who threatened legal action when they [...]

“She’s Gotten Fat.”

Forgive me for even bringing this up, but word is, my former other woman has gotten fat!   I know, that’s petty.  Plus, who the hell cares? It’s what’s on the inside the counts.  Nothing more.
Still, I couldn’t help but chuckle when a coworker of mine happened to mention OW in a recent [...]

Undeserved Flattery.

I wonder what it would be like to log onto my computer each day and read a blog that is dedicated to me. Each new post would serve as a reminder that I am wanted, needed, adored by someone. Oh, what an ego boost that would be! A daily dose of “I [...]

Fill Out Survey and Return.

My recent chats with new blog-friend Misfit Mistress have reminded me of something I’ve known for a while.   People who blog about the lover they can no longer have really want only one thing.
Answers.
Yes, it’s easy for readers to get lost in the details of this blog and others like it.   We hurting-types yammer on [...]

Other Woman 2.0

UPDATE:  I’ve just been informed that the below-mentioned Facebook page has been deleted.  As usual.  As with everything and everyone in her life.
I’m embarrassed to admit I have a Facebook page. It’s nothing against Facebook, but my days of posting silly comments on someone’s photo are long over. (I’d rather be blogging.) [...]

What I Learned from a Fellow Adulterer.

By 6:45 on Friday evening, I was dog-tired, and in no mood to go to a bar. I had been up since 4 a.m. that day taking one of my kids to a field trip drop-off location.  The only thing that sounded good was pizza and a Blockbuster movie. Still, I knew I [...]

g?

Don’t ask me why, but “g?” used to mean something.
I just felt like typing it.  Can’t muster the energy to explain what it means.  Or used to mean.
There.  I feel better now.