A Wise Adulterer Speaketh.

I don’t know you.  We’ve never met.  I don’t know where you live or where you work.  I don’t know if you take your coffee black, or with cream and sugar.  (One lump or two?)  If you and I were seated across from each other at the airport or the train station, we wouldn’t speak.  [...]

Fill Out Survey and Return.

My recent chats with new blog-friend Misfit Mistress have reminded me of something I’ve known for a while.   People who blog about the lover they can no longer have really want only one thing.
Answers.
Yes, it’s easy for readers to get lost in the details of this blog and others like it.   We hurting-types yammer on [...]

Other Woman 2.0

UPDATE:  I’ve just been informed that the below-mentioned Facebook page has been deleted.  As usual.  As with everything and everyone in her life.
I’m embarrassed to admit I have a Facebook page. It’s nothing against Facebook, but my days of posting silly comments on someone’s photo are long over. (I’d rather be blogging.) [...]

What I Learned from a Fellow Adulterer.

By 6:45 on Friday evening, I was dog-tired, and in no mood to go to a bar. I had been up since 4 a.m. that day taking one of my kids to a field trip drop-off location.  The only thing that sounded good was pizza and a Blockbuster movie. Still, I knew I [...]

g?

Don’t ask me why, but “g?” used to mean something.
I just felt like typing it.  Can’t muster the energy to explain what it means.  Or used to mean.
There.  I feel better now.

A New Respect for Ex.

I promised myself I would write no more about my former other woman.  It’s all been said.  But in recent weeks, I’ve gained a new “appreciation” for why she did what she did.
(The world must be coming to an end for me to say that!)
Since the affair, I have been called every name the English [...]

It Speaks.

The blogosphere is a crowded place.  Millions of people. Millions of topics.   So when a fellow blogger recently informed me they stumbled onto a blog post that may have been written by my former other woman, I was doubtful.
Until I read it.
I am absolutely convinced it is hers.
It was a single post.  (I use the [...]

The Bastard I’ve Become.

The funny thing about this blog (not that there’s really much humor in what I write) is that in real life, I’m a pretty nice guy.  I know, easy for me to say.  But it’s true!
I’m a husband, father and working professional whose talents are often reported on the evening news.  My face is familiar [...]

Does She Miss Me?

That’s the other question.  Does my former other woman miss me after all these months?
Readers of this blog may answer ‘no’ after all the mean things I’ve posted about her.  I’ve attacked her character.  I have questioned her sanity.  I have stopped just short of saying I hate her.
But does she ever miss me?
I wonder. [...]

A Valid Excuse to Cheat.

“This person I had come to adore had a valid excuse to cheat on her spouse, if you can imagine such a thing.”