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Reinventing Yourself (After an Affair.)

Let me tell you what I did last night.  It’s boring, but I’m really quite proud of myself.   I surprised my family with a better-than-average dinner.  By that, I mean I found an awesome recipe on the internet and … Continue reading

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The Secret Second Life.

“We dance round in a ring and suppose, While the secret sits in the middle and knows.” ~ Robert Frost. I’m going to be brutally honest…again. This mess we find ourselves in wouldn’t have happened if we’d been honest with … Continue reading

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A Wise Adulterer Speaketh.

I don’t know you.  We’ve never met.  I don’t know where you live or where you work.  I don’t know if you take your coffee black, or with cream and sugar.  (One lump or two?)  If you and I were … Continue reading

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Blog Search Terms from Hell.

You’d think by now I’d be used to the search terms that steer people to this blog o’ mine.   Hell, I write the stuff.  It’s natural that certain key words would bring up my blog.  Still, I’m amazed by … Continue reading

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No Country for Old Adulterers.

“Beware the beast, man, for he is the Devil’s pawn. Alone among God’s primates, he kills for sport or lust or greed. Yea, he will murder his brother, to possess his brother’s land. Let him not breed in great numbers, for he … Continue reading

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Normal? I’ll Show You Normal.

It’s funny how “weird” we bloggers sometimes get airing the dirty laundry of our lives.  Even I can’t believe some of the crap I’ve written.  Occasionally, while reading my own posts, I wonder, “Who is this guy?” The truth is, … Continue reading

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How Long Does It Take to Get Over an Affair?

“Keep your chin up, soldier!” said the woman from Ohio.  “You will get through this.  It just takes time.” “But how much time?” I asked the stranger.  I was thankful for her comment on my blog, but wasn’t buying it. … Continue reading

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47…Going on Dead. (Shoot Me.)

Technically, I’m still 46.  The big B-Day doesn’t arrive until Tuesday.  But my mind is already racing with thoughts of “what I’ve learned so far” in approximately 47 years of life. Know this:  I don’t claim to be right about … Continue reading

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Memorial Day Do’s and Don’ts for Adulterer’s.

You know not to drink and drive. You know not to light a grill with gasoline. And you know not to swim immediately after eating. That shit’ll getcha killed, or so we’ve been told. But what about Memorial Day “do’s” … Continue reading

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How History Remembers Affairs.

May 25, 2050. Rummaging through boxes in a dust-filled attic, the young woman made a startling discovery. A leather-bound journal that belonged to her grandfather recounted the story of his fabled affair. But not the story that had been whispered … Continue reading

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