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A Spooky Story about Affairs.

This is a true story.  No fantasy shit.  What you’re about to read actually happened.  I was in my kitchen last night washing dishes like a good boy when my wife’s cell phone started to chirp.   The familiar sound of … Continue reading

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Normal? I’ll Show You Normal.

It’s funny how “weird” we bloggers sometimes get airing the dirty laundry of our lives.  Even I can’t believe some of the crap I’ve written.  Occasionally, while reading my own posts, I wonder, “Who is this guy?” The truth is, … Continue reading

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How Long Does It Take to Get Over an Affair?

“Keep your chin up, soldier!” said the woman from Ohio.  “You will get through this.  It just takes time.” “But how much time?” I asked the stranger.  I was thankful for her comment on my blog, but wasn’t buying it. … Continue reading

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47…Going on Dead. (Shoot Me.)

Technically, I’m still 46.  The big B-Day doesn’t arrive until Tuesday.  But my mind is already racing with thoughts of “what I’ve learned so far” in approximately 47 years of life. Know this:  I don’t claim to be right about … Continue reading

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Memorial Day Do’s and Don’ts for Adulterer’s.

You know not to drink and drive. You know not to light a grill with gasoline. And you know not to swim immediately after eating. That shit’ll getcha killed, or so we’ve been told. But what about Memorial Day “do’s” … Continue reading

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How History Remembers Affairs.

May 25, 2050. Rummaging through boxes in a dust-filled attic, the young woman made a startling discovery. A leather-bound journal that belonged to her grandfather recounted the story of his fabled affair. But not the story that had been whispered … Continue reading

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The Delusions of a Cheating Man.

I know a guy who, just like me, cheated on his wife with a woman he worked with. Over beers one night (see What I Learned from a Fellow Adulterer), he told me a story that blew my mind. See if … Continue reading

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Is the Opposite of Love ‘Indifference’?

It’s funny how certain things people say get stuck in your head like a broken record. For example, a few months ago, when I was blogging about my hatred for my former “other woman” who I once loved, blog-friend Terri … Continue reading

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Which Couple is Better Off? You Decide.

A married man has an affair with a married woman. They get caught. As expected, the shit hits the fan, but both cheaters manage to hold onto their marriages. Yet there is a major difference in how these couples fare … Continue reading

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Having An Affair? Take It to Your Grave.

I remember the first time I told a close friend about my affair. This was after my wife found out about it. My life was a living hell and his first question to me was, “How did you get caught?” … Continue reading

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